Mind the Gap - Distant Socializing

The one who are separated by distance but dine together - A perfect couple

From setting up lawn chairs in driveways for socially-distant neighborhood parties to conversing with one another from apartment building balconies people have been finding innovative ways to continue socializing with friends and neighbors. Amongst all of these, dining has always been such a companion that has brought people together.

Whether it is a lunch party or meeting over drinks with your old buddies the essence of socializing has always been face to face in its utmost physical form. Take for instance, our very own City of Joy, Calcutta which is famous for its chit chats of many sorts. From having addas on something that has an edge of adventure followed with cups of teas and coffees or sitting at the coffee houses and discussing literature, cinema and culture had its own essence and magnanimity.  But now the world has taken a different route altogether where this art of entertainment is going to undergo a slow death. Does that mean we will be cutting of all means of socializing in the post COvid world is a thought that might have crossed most of our minds.

In fact, we are in the mode of entering a new world altogether. One where large gatherings and social events will soon become private and exclusive. Hopping to a bar to meet your friends will convert to smaller house parties. Lounges in clubs will take the shape of living rooms in your houses. Most ironically, greetings will be verbal than physical. Well, you can forget giving the pecks or hugging, instead it’s going to be a folded hand gesture or a “Hi” from a distance.

Tea parties will take place via Skype and Zoom. While you are at home you call over your friends on these apps and basically enjoy a ‘Virtual Tea Party’. Sounds crazy? Well it’s going to get crazier than this with time! We will now be having virtual birthday parties and is that fine, come to think of it, if we can’t have the cake, the least we could do is dress up and sing ‘Happy Birthday!’ via video conferencing apps.

We have been discussing of how the world is going to work in this ‘new normal’ environment. So, are people going to be visiting restaurants? Or for that matter will they at all be dining for say the next 4-6 months? An industry which accounts for the largest employer of the workforce have already started to think on the lines of operating with a short team. Does that mean we are looking at a ‘contactless’ dining space? 

The other day my friend was suggesting me with a tone of sarcasm, that its not too far where he would find drones flying over his table or robots coming and taking down orders! For a moment his suggestion quickly took me to the sets of Spielberg or Josh Lucas!

I told him that I hope that it’s not going to be that bad, while his reaction was is it? But if such a thing really is on the cards then we are soon going to lose on having a physical interaction. 

The essence of celebrating a Valentine’s Day or an anniversary at a restaurant would mean asking the couple to sit at a length’s distance.  By the end of your evening, the maximum they could do is just send messages via What’s App! I might be exaggerating my suspension of belief but what if this is actually the reality we are about to face.

We are surely heading into a world where it is certain that for the next few years socializing and camaraderie in public places would become a distant thing. The essence of finding the time to have a face to face meeting will get replicated with a FaceTime. Our focus to zoom in the minute feelings of goofing off will be made out of focus by Zoom. The vitality in feeling a connection will mostly happen over a Skype and all the kibitz, dawdle and giving high fives by saying, “hey buddy was sup” will have to be limited to just a “What’s App” call.

In the end of all this there is still a ray of hope that while dining out will come with its prohibitions, the fun and frolic will continue in house parties and potlucks. There will be music and the world will continue to be a better place to live in but with a change in how we think. So, while you enjoy all the moments of your life do not socially distant yourselves but ‘distant socially’ because we are heading into an era where at every step the world will be announcing, “MIND THE GAP!”